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When They First Met!

Samantha was doing her office work, suddenly the light turns off. Almost threw her spectacles on her desk, hit the pen hard on the wall. She got panicked, she stepped outside.. It was raining.. She loves rain. The most beautiful season for every lover. She felt the scent of wet mud in her nostrils, she closed her eyes, smiles like she never before.. The cold breeze was flirting with her hair.. The rain droplets was kissing her cheeks.. She could feel the love in the air..it reminded her of Ross. It was a cloudy day in Newyork. Samantha and Ross was first met. It was during his first day at work. They were friends before over a social networking site and planned for a meeting. Fortunately, Ross got a job at Samantha's work place. When he got in he was searching for her and suddenly his eyes got stuck at a girl. Samantha look overwhelmed by the work load, she might be on a deadline for her work. Her face shows how overstress her life is. But Ross was completely mesmerised by...

Can you spend a day without complaining?

The post is a little long, but I am sure at the end you will feel it was worth reading it. Few months back I read a quote that says- I spend a whole day thinking about it. Then I decided to make this challenge. However, I love the idea of having a sort of competition with yourself where you have to not complain about anything in your life for one whole day. I thought its way to easy but it wasn't. Here is what I learned- I Complain a lot. Like most of people I do complain a lot. Complaining is our default setting. I know preventing yourself from complaining is no easy feat. For most of us, complaining has become habit—something we do automatically, without even thinking about it. We also complain to avoid responsibility for our own actions. Like, "I missed the bus, I'll be late for work." However, you choose this. You could choose another transport or came on time, But you choose not to. Whatever is happening in your life is your choice. I ...

Depressed?? - 7 ways to pick yourself back up!

From time to time, we all get a little down, maybe even a little depressed. Maybe we feel bad that we are not doing well with our goals or feeling overwhelmed. There may be many reasons for being depressed like Relationships, Career, Health, Job etc. We know being depressed about our problem wont give us the solution. So if we could find a solution without feeling down why get depressed? What I can talk about are some things that worked for me. Feeling down is a total normal thing for everyone. But feeling a little down can interfere with achieving our goals. This could last longer if we don't take action. Here are some things that could help you as they worked well for me: 1.Make a list Sometimes we are depressed simply because we are overwhelmed with all the things we have to do that we haven’t gotten around to doing. Start simply by picking up a piece of paper and a pen, and making a list of the most pressing things you have to do. It may be some personal stuff...

Soulmates- To find or to make!

Do you think the universe fights for souls to be together?  Some things are too strange and strong to be coincidences. -Emery Allen The first time when you start liking someone, it is obvious that you start thinking about him/her all day and night. And what you do when you have gone too far thinking about being with them is you started thinking about your future with them like you will be together until death seperates you or something like a fairy tale in which the Prince and the Princess happily ended their love story. But when things didn't worked out, unfortunately you start believing that he/she wasn't "made for you" or " you were not made for each other" and exclusively the word "Soulmate" was used thoroughly. And you move on to start a new relationship. Do you ever think upon the term "Soulmate"? When you get into a fresh new relationship you start believing that your beloved and you were meant to be together...

Breakups: How to get over

Breakups are normal, Its not the end of everything you have. When you broke up with him everything looks wrong, you cry all night hiding under your favorite pillow thinking about all your crushed dreams and the sweet-sour moments. You listen to his favorite track on a repeat mode, eat lots of ice cream, keep looking for his call and thinking about why this happened? But this is not the right thing to do. It's completely okay to cry about it.  You're hurt so you will feel upset. For the first few weeks its going to be a lonely and a long journey. Cry hard as much you can because at the end of it you'll get sick of it and it will end then you'll realise that its a temporary phase. Be postive. If he doesn't want you back don't feel unwanted or worthless. Open yourself, gain some confidence and see there are plenty of people wants you in their lives. Spend time with people you feel better with. Communicate with social networking sites. Go shopping,...